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On reading and progress

Ilan Bouchard has a great post up at his personal blog called On Reading and Progress.

I never read anymore without a pen and highlighter. I highlight passages that stand out and scribble notes in the margins; when I finish a book, I set it aside for a month or two. Then I return to it and transcribe all the highlighted passages and notes into a word document, marking their page numbers. This allows me to review the book and fixes its main concepts in my mind. If I want to review a quote, I can search within the word document for a few words or phrases from the passage, and jump directly to the quote in question, even if I can’t remember who wrote it or which book it came from.

I can’t stress how much doing exactly this has helped me. I’ve only done this with maybe 15 books since I started doing it a few months ago, but it’s already helped me massively. If you want to do the same, here’s some great resources:

These are more for learning on your own time, and if you want something a little more structured, MIT’s Open Courseware is awesome as well. They have lecture notes and presentations and recommended textbooks for all the courses that MIT offer, for free. It’s fantastic.

My top 3 blogs

On the main page of this site is a list of blogs and websites that I read on a regular basis (in fact I subscribe to them all via RSS and read them in Google Reader). I’d recommend all of them, but thse are the three that I think are the best.

Ryan Holiday

I’ve written about Ryan a couple of times before, but his site is fantastic. Ryan is PR director for Rudius Media and also does work for a big Hollywood management company and the author Robert Greene, among others. Aside from the huge fact that his site is the inspiration for mine, the guy works for Tucker Max, and he reads like his life depends on it. His reading list is packed with great books (I’m working through them now). Ryan is only a year older than me and yet seems so driven, motivated and mature, it’s incredible. If you’re under the age of 25 and aren’t reading his blog, you should be. Here’s some posts of his from my delicious bookmarks:

Seth Godin

Seth’s blog is a fantastic blog on business and marketing. He is one of the most respected business thinkers in the world and, if I remember rightly, his blog is the most read business blog on the internet. His common sense approach to business is great. If and when I start a business in the future, this post will be my manifesto. Some other posts of his that I like:

I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell

This is the production blog for Tucker Max’s first film, I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell, and is written predominantly by Tucker, but with posts from his executive producer and co-writer Nils Parker, and a couple from his assistant Greg and the lead actors. Obviously I’m a big fan of Tucker Max, but I never really appreciated how hard the guy works or how smart he was until he started this blog. The archives stretch right back to pre-production, and Tucker talks about finding a director, casting, making the financing deals and so on, before moving onto the actual shooting of the film. It’s now in the post-production process, with editing and test screenings and so on, and it’s scheduled to be released in 2009. I can’t wait. If you have any interest in filmand want to know more about what goes on behind the scenes, you should definitely check it out. Here are some of my favourite posts from the IHTSBIH production blog:

Of course I’m always looking for new sites to read, more content to devour, so if anyone knows any other good blogs or websites they think I should be reading, fire away in the comments section. I’d love to hear what other people are reading, or what they think of these choices.

More advice on life from friends of Tucker Max

This time it’s his ex-girlfriend and fellow Rudius Media writer Erin Tyler, aka The Bunny. Yet another teenager was asking for advice about his situation at college (he got kicked out of his dorm but was allowed to stay enrolled in college on academic probation). Bunny replied with this gem.

“Hey, homeless dude, why did you get kicked out? All the kids I knew who dropped out of college, or got kicked out of college, didn’t like to go to class because they didn’t know what they wanted to do with their lives. Frankly, I don’t think ANY 18 year old knows who they are and what they want to do. In Switzerland, you decide what your career will be at twelve, most people hate their jobs, but they have much higher job security and a lifestyle that is rather incomparable to ours. You won’t get a month of paid vacation around here, and no two hour lunches, so you better be really fucking happy with your chosen career. I think most kids realize this. I think at your age, we see how miserable working environments are, how miserable the people within them are, and we balk at becoming an adult. And then, what if you don’t think your classes are remotely interesting? You slack off and get in trouble.

Fact is, aside from obeying laws and paying taxes, and dying one day, you don’t ever have to do anything you don’t want to–without exception. Furthermore, you can do whatever you believe you can do. The doing isn’t that hard. You believe, and then you decide, and then you go to step one and work real hard. Eventually, you do it. So why don’t you go out into the world, get a place, get a job that pays the bills, but doesn’t require a huge commitment of time, energy, emotion, etc., and read lots of books. Figure out what excites you the most. That is your passion. That is your signpost. Follow that like people follow God, because that is the path to true, sustainable happiness and the life you want to live. You’ll know you’re headed in the right direction, when going to class, or learning your craft, is the highlight of your day.”

Read the whole thread here.

I love the RMMB sometimes. It must be the only place on the internet where you can amazing advice like this and then go and talk about what you’re going to do on World Toilet Day.

Why I’m such a huge Tucker Max fan

Edit: I previously had a series of 3 posts where I went into a lot more depth than I do here. Those posts were terribly rambling and incoherent, and there was no need for them, so I deleted them. This post, and this quote, is a great summary of why I’m a Tucker Max fan.

From the advice board thread entitled Guide to Beginner Game: How to develop game if you have none:

“You know how many times in my life I have gotten something or achieved something because I tried where others begged off, because I threw my hat in the ring when others kept theirs on their head? You know how many hot girls I have gotten because I went up and talked to them, while everyone else was scared of them? Yes I have game, but my game is worthless sitting alone at a table. It takes balls to approach a hot girl or to put your life on the internet, and friends, I have two huge ones, and this is why I am a winner and will always be a winner.”

This shows Tucker’s attitude to life. He started out down a career path he hated, realised it was wrong for him, changed his mind, figured out what he wanted to do with his life. Then he figured out how to get it. And then he went and did it. I admire him for that. Now he’s written a New York Times bestseller, runs a great company and is making a film.

Check out his messageboard, read his book, or follow his movie production blog.

Starting a new blog and creating a new media presence

I’ve decided to start this blog based on the indirect advice of several people, who have hugely influenced me over the past year or so.

Ryan Holiday, PR director for Rudius Media, the media company established and run by Tucker Max, is probably my main influence in this area. He talks about creating a new media presence, and believes that in order to get places, to do the things you want, you need to put yourself out there, educate yourself, make connections, and so on. I started reading Ryan’s blog over a year ago now, and it is fantastic. I can relate to a lot of what he says: Ryan is sort of like a successful, smarter version of how I see myself at the moment (although whether that’s just wishful thinking on my part, I’m not sure). A lot of the stuff he talks about is to do with educating yourself, improving your thinking and setting yourself up to be successful in the future. Probably my main influence at the moment.

Ryan has also posted what he considers to be the 3 best blogs on the internet. His number one is business guru Seth Godin, who’s blog I also subscribe to. He constantly emphasizes the importance of going the extra mile with customers, creating meaningful relationships and doing remarkable things to make you and your company stand out. He wrote this brilliant post on Why bother having a resume?. His main point is here in the latter half of the blog post. Instead of a resume:

“How about three extraordinary letters of recommendation from people the employer knows or respects?

Or a sophisticated project they can see or touch?
Or a reputation that precedes you?
Or a blog that is so compelling and insightful that they have no choice but to follow up?

Some say, “well, that’s fine, but I don’t have those.”

Yeah, that’s my point. If you don’t have those, why do you think you are remarkable, amazing or just plain spectacular? It sounds to me like if you don’t have those, you’ve been brainwashed into acting like you’re sort of ordinary.

Great jobs, world class jobs, jobs people kill for… those jobs don’t get filled by people emailing in resumes. Ever.”

Honestly speaking, I read that article once or twice, thought it was cool and that he was right, and then ignored his advice and carried on as I had before. But I’ve decided to actually do something about it now. The third and final motivator for my action was another Rudius Media writer Ben Corman, who has written a fantastic piece about this sort of thing, called In the future we’ll all be art students. Ben mentions a great quote from a Wall Street trader he met in the mid-90s, who was frustrated at the lack of quality of graduates applying for jobs at his firm. He said:

“All of these kids tell me that they want to be traders. So why aren’t any of them trading. Why aren’t they taking a few grand and creating a portfolio? Or if they don’t have the money why aren’t they giving themselves an imaginary budget, “buying” a few hundred shares of different companies then tracking that for six months? I’ll hire the first kid who shows me initiative even if he’s lost money. I can teach trading strategies, I can’t teach hunger.”

I’d love to say that his advice really resonated with me, and I had an epiphany and realised that this was the future, the gold-paved road to success. But that’s not true. It took several weeks for the message to really sink in, and I’ve read all of the articles that I’ve linked to several times. But I think I finally understand, or at least am beginning to understand, what all these people are talking about.

Which is where this blog comes in. This will be where I write about what I’m learning, what I’ve discovered, how I think I’ve developed myself personally, and so on. This is my portfolio.

Massive thanks to everyone mentioned in this post: Ben, Seth and Ryan. I have a feeling I’ll be linking to them a lot more in future. And I am undoubtedly indebted to Tucker Max, as without his influence and advice I literally wouldn’t be the same person that I am today. Although I still have a ridiculously long way to go.